The thing I’ve found is that men typically really like spending time with me in both a sexual and non-sexual way. I had a relationship with a married man last year, we never slept together but just met once a week for dinner and it was amazing the kind of transformation he had. He saw it and his wife, even his employer could tell a difference in him.
Got this in my OkCupid inbox today. It just felt like it needed a slow clap accompaniment.